This article is devoted to the problems of destabilization, conflict and problem areas in contemporary gender and family relations, mostly in the system of social roles realization. Selected problem areas promote not only destructive forms of relationships within the family unit and cause individual deep sense of dissatisfaction with life, but destabilize society on the whole, destroying peace and tranquillity both locally and globally. It is known that some contemporary types of gender and marital-family problems are very destructive to the existence of the whole social system. Such, in particular, can be called the imbalance of roles and inadequacy of prestige of the spouse/partner. Due to the urgency of the identified problems there increases the need for modeling the processes of peacemaking in the society, where the main actors can certainly become women. Female gender sub-group played a prominent role in peacemaking, in particular, during WW II , performing a variety of social roles.

Keywords: peacemaking, security, family, gender, gender studies, world war II, "war bride"